A lot of single women are running around asking each other the same questions; Where are all the good men or Do you know how to make a man need you?
Maybe once in a while an emasculated mangina type will throw his two cents worth in as well but to be perfectly honest neither group has insight into what a man is really capable of.
My first reaction to this question is pretty obvious; Why would you want a needy man?
The images go through my head of a dominant women dragging her ball and chain husband off to work each day. Where the attraction in that I ask you? And what happened to women being liberated?
Apparently, this is one of the other differences between men and women that I just don’t get. I am told that new age liberated women want their men to be docile and obedient so needy is just one of the attractive hooks required to bag him. Also, if he is not needy now, he can be trained.
Emotional Manipulation (aka Training)
The techniques of training a man that worked in your mother’s time don’t work on modern men. The old wife’s tale is still commonly well-regarded that all men are putty and need the training of a good woman to become suitable for marriage. That is, well regarded by women only.
Men are just as commonly selecting to believe different old wives tales; ones such as “women are capable doing everything a man can do and women don’t need men.” It is kind of hard to ignore such feminist mantras when they get thrown at you every day for decades on end.
The result, women, is that your feminist sisters have created a social environment where women only want a very small percentage of men and men only want a very small percentage of the women.
80/20 Bad Guy Phenomenon
Anyone who subscribes to the 80/20 philosophy to life will recognize this trend. The culture at large is now set up so that 80% of the women are fighting each other for 20% of the men. What has this got to do with me trying to hook my man you ask?
I dunno, I lost my train of thought on that one but I will just throw in that scarcity breed competition and I am seeing women reporting left right and center the scarcity of eligible men to wife them up.
The Friendzone- Nice Guys Always Finish Last
It is no secret that nice guys never get the nice girls.
The few men that do pursue women but get turned down will often end up in what we refer to as the friendzone. An internal hell of favors, errands and jobs done for a women without any of the benefits.
A lot of simpleton men will be blinds to this trick and carry on for years on end pursuing this fruitless endeavor. These are the types of men (the nice guys) that probably as susceptible to all the minds games and eventually “training” to become an obedient man slave.
What is it with you women always wanting to “buff out our rough edges.” Emasculated men are just train wrecks waiting to happen. I really don’t get it. 50 years ago (back in the days when boys actually grew up watching their dads work on the farm) boys were allowed to be boys but all that got thrown out the window when the family unit was destroyed.
Now that the majority of boys are raised and educated solely by women boys are being socially engineered into androgynous social experiments.
All the Good Guys are trying to leave the Plantation
I mentioned earlier that reports are starting to surface of a man drought. Originally, I thought this was just a case of women’s standards being too high but after asking around, that is after actually engaging with men and asking them, I drew some completely different conclusions.
The analogy here is that life is just like your typical sugar cane plantation back in the early 1900s. Men are the labor slaves working hard to keep their female captors in the fashion they have become used to. When I say men are trying to leave the plantation I refer to the fact that men are no longer willing to put in the gruelingly hard days years on end just to be thrown onto the scrap heap on the whim of his master’s feelings that day. They would prefer to break free from the constraints and risk life as a free man on the run.
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Hi there, My friends call me Remy. I am a middle aged divorcee that has decided not to walk the path other people decided to set down for me. I have gained the most strength in my life from my failures. Resilience is a very powerful attribute if you can manage it, I am still building mine up but stick with me and we can forge ahead together.