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My Regrets After Midlife Crisis Divorce

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Hello beautiful world. My name is Margery and you are reading my very first post. By the end you will see for yourself why I was elected the perfect candidate to talk about Regret After Midlife Crisis Divorce (even though I am female, the fairer sex, I still managed to pull off a decent midlife crisis. Something my male colleagues all aspire to I bet. Ha Ha Ha. Unfortunately I don’t have a sportscar to show for it but I do have plenty of regrets and plenty of lost opportunities to share with you.  My aim here is to counter the popular fairytale story that an empowered woman can do anything.  My experiences were that empowerment failed to pay my bills or attract men and girl power wasn’t enough to lift those weights at the gym when I needed it most. My Backstory: prior to the midlife divorce I was […]

How To Find A Wife, Red Wine, Confusion, Gold Diggery, Xanax & Divorce Rape

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So I was in a bar last night catching up with a very old friend of mine I hadn’t seen in decades. She is married and after a few bottles of wines her husband started telling me how to find a wife until I turned the discussion to why I have no interest in getting married again. They really challenged me to explain and it and proceeded to tell me how to find a wife.  It unearthed quite a few hidden things within my psyche – maybe skeletons, maybe reservations but definitely a lot of preconceptions and a few (defence) mechanisms. From what I can piece together (from the remnants of what I remember through my cracking headache) the thought pattern went something like this. The Obvious Concern is her Biological Clock Pressure Cooker I am in my mid 40s and I already have all the kids I want so […]

Dating Single Parents- 10 Horror Stories Worth You Hearing

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Hi there. I have got a bunch of very interesting stories to share with you now all to do with dating single parents. Over the past year or so I have heard dozens of stories from people recovering after divorce, after a while quite a few of them jump back into the dating game and from what I can tell that is when the new challenges start. I promised quite of few of them that I would share their stories one day as a warning to newly divorced or other people in the dating game. Enjoy, I hope you can learn something and put measures in place to make sure you don’t repeat any of these mistakes. Here goes, in no particularly order, ten stories I have heard more than once that are worth you reflect on. Stick with me because at the end I am going to try to […]

Indigo Children Characteristics – A Fathers Perspective Looking In From the Outside

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Hi there. My first introduction to some of the indigo children characteristics was somewhat of a shock. I will share the story with you below but first let me say that I am a lot more open-minded now than I was years ago when this all played out. I am a believer that there is a greater purpose to life, consciousness is connected and that today’s human form is responsible for a lot of the limitations we accept as our strengths. Once you read on I hope you will connect with these concepts a lot more. So is the story of when I first heard the analogy of Indigo Children. It was during my family court custody battle. After separation with my wife. I was filing for regular access to my children and the ex-wife was having none of it. She employed all the usual tactics that scornful women use […]

Male Sigma Personality Vs Zeta Male Personality. Spiderman Vs Ninja Assassin.

Hi there. The Male Sigma Personality Vs the Zeta Male Personality Hey. Where do we start? The two types of men are right under our noses but also seem to be hidden in plain sight just like ninjas. These are the men, the Ninjas capable of greatest but dedicated to their own goals. It is one of the most significant attributes of all the great men throughout history. They have mostly been either Sigmas or Zetas but they have more often been without woman, ignored by society (until their success) and highly intelligent men of action. [Two examples come to mind straight off the bat: Albert Einstein & Nikola Tesla]. I am hoping as you read through this post two themes are going to arise for you. The first is, Action; the second is conformance. Let me know in the comment below how these two manifested for you. Please note […]

Live Minimalist Lifestyle with An Abundant Living Mentality – The Key To Good Fortune

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Good evening and welcome. Put your feet up, pour yourself a cup of tea and let me propose a concept to you that I hope will improve your situation a bit. The post title pretty much says it all “Live Minimalist Lifestyle with an Abundant Living mentality is a key to good fortune.” What is means is that the Minimalists approach to your material world coupled with an Abundant Living Mentality can strike a perfect balance between the physical and mental worlds. Such a balance should be the aim for everyone (especially those of us recovering from a divorce) who wants to make the most of every minute we have here. The Minimalists Lifestyle What is minimalism? People in the west are increasingly and voluntarily giving away all their worldly possessions to live a non-materialistic life. Why would they do such a thing? The trappings of debt and the enslavement […]